If you’re alive you have a problem. Bills to pay, and groceries to buy, children’s supplies for school to purchase. Sorry for stating the obvious. But the more we accept it the better we get on. Just breathe.
When I write I’m always trying to solve a problem, help an individual, not a group.
Most of my writing is trying to solve problems. Understand my feelings and thoughts in my head. Sometime it’s about the same topic only from a different perspective – a sign of growth. Growth allows you to see and recognize criticism and projections and know it’s not about you; it’s about the one who speaks to you.
We grow exponentially, but more importantly, we develop self-awareness. We recognize the changes in the way we see people and the world around us.
We, humans, are incredible beings with a spirit. We are born with talents, gifts, and various types and degrees of intelligence. So please do not compare your chldren against one another. It damages the brain of a child. Especially in their adolescent years. (Ages 9-19). Comparing is humiliating. It’s how shame is internalized and a child feels worthless. They begin to pull away or become a slave (codependent) to their narcissistic parent. They become toxic.
“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well”.- King David is praising God. (Psalms 139)
God is with you in your best days and carry you through the worst days. He says, “I will make a way in the wilderness and river in the desert.”
Have a wonderful week! Remember me loving you.